The Love Month!

So I've been reading a great 7 day devotional on "The 5 Love Languages for Her" by Gary Chapman! It has opened my eyes and heart on how to bring more love and connection into my marriage. This devotional has shown me a new perspective on how to treat my husband and factors that will help us reconnect on a daily basis. I have been married almost 3 years and our marriage isn't perfect but it's great! This can pertain to any relationship on any level (boyfriend/girlfriend, engaged, newlyweds, married 3 years to 50+ years)!! I wanted to share this great devotional for all the ladies out there but I don't want the men to feel left out...there is a 5 Love Languages for Him too! This Devotional Plan is on my "Bible" app but check out the website where you can buy Gary Chapman's book and find tips, etc: www.5lovelanguages.com

Here's the first day:

"Something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. Isolation is devastating to the human psyche. That is why solitary confinement is considered the cruelest of punishments. At the heart of humankind's existence is the desire to be intimate and to be loved by another. Marriage is designed to meet that need for intimacy and love. That is why the ancient biblical writings spoke of the husband and wife becoming "one flesh." That did not mean that individuals would lose their identity; it meant that they would enter into each other's lives in a deep and intimate way.

But if love is important, it is also elusive. I have listened to many married couples share their secret pain. Some came to me because the inner ache had become unbearable. Others came because they realized that their behavior patterns or the misbehavior of their spouse was destroying the marriage. Some came simply to inform me that they no longer wanted to be married. Their dreams of"living happily ever after" had been dashed against the hard walls of reality. Again and again I have heard the words "Our love is gone, our relationship is dead. We used to feel close, but not now. We no longer enjoy being with each other. We don't meet each other's needs." Their stories bear testimony that adults as well as children have "love tanks."

Could it be that deep inside hurting couples exists an invisible "emotional love tank" with its gauge on empty? Could the misbehavior, withdrawal, harsh words, and critical spirit occur because of that empty tank?" If we could find a way to fill it, could the marriage be reborn?

With a full tank would couples be able to create an emotional climate where it is possible to discuss differences and resolve conflicts? Could that tank be the key that makes marriage work? Those questions sent me on a long journey. Along the way, I discovered the simple yet powerful insights contained in this book. The journey has taken me not only through thirty years of marriage counseling but into the hearts and minds of hundreds of couples throughout America. From Seattle to Miami, couples have invited me into the inner chamber of their marriages, and we have talked openly. The illustrations included in this book are cut from the fabric of real life. Only names and places are changed to protect the privacy of the individuals who have spoken so freely.

I am convinced that keeping the emotional love tank full is an important to a marriage as maintaining the proper oil level is to an automobile. Running your marriage on an empty "Love tank" may cost you even more than trying to drive your car without oil. What you are about to read has the potential of saving thousands of marriages and can even enhance the emotional climate of a good marriage. Whatever the quality of your marriage now, it can always be better. "

1 Peter 4:8 "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."

WOW!!!! Gary Chapman is awesome! I hope ya'll enjoy this devotional and take the 7 day journey with me!!

xoxo-necole